Existentialism
Ever heard the cliche “Everything happens for a reason?” I believe it. When I’ve gone through a crisis, I don’t necessarily see the meaning or the point to it all at the time being, but in retrospect, I always see why it happened and how I was able to survive it. Now that I’m 30 yrs old, happily married, with a great job, living in a beautiful home, with great friends and a wonderful family, I’m truly grateful for my past heartaches, disappointments, failures, and broken friendships because it has all taught me valuable life lessons. It makes me so happy that I left all that shit behind, good riddance!
Experiences, whether good or bad, make you who you are. We create the meaning and essence of our lives - we are responsible for our own happiness, and we possess control of the choices we make in our lives.
This leads me to my rant: people that are constantly complaining about their relationship(s), money, and job really weigh me down. I hate hearing it, especially if the problem exists for more than 2 weeks, the problem is YOU!!!! You are to blame if you subject yourself to the struggles, heartbreak, and misery. So do something, no one is going to do it for you!